Lightning Round

Every once in a while lightning strikes and I am summoned to answer many questions at once. I accept this challenge. Let’s get on with it! What’s the difference between mansplaining and garden variety condescending? Mansplaining is a sub-category of condescension. IMHO, someone who is being condescending thinks they’re better than you. They have an […]

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PDA? More like FML!

Emily, The person I am dating has an opposite opinion of appropriate Public Displays of Affection. I don’t believe it’s a situation when the public aspect of it is a turn on (it’s more of a lack of caring of what bystanders may think). Thanks for your help, Bad And Rad Heathen Under More Puritanically […]

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Sweating the Big Stuff

Do you sacrifice the “big stuff” marriage/kids for a connection with someone that you’ve never felt with anyone else? Dear Big Stuff, I appreciate your willingness to let me answer this big life question, which happens to be my very first question (yay!). I expect you to take my advice 100% and never question me. […]

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What is Very Good Advice?

I’ve always loved advice of any kind. At various points during the week, you can find me listening to advice podcasts, reading advice columns, or giving advice to anyone who asks. My love of advice comes from a deep passion for helping others, and a deeper passion of hot gossip. Learning about people, how they work […]

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